When I attempt to communicate with others I do so from my own understanding and perspective. We all do. I have good intentions. I try to meet people 'where they are at' if you will. We all have different preferences for how a message or idea ought to be communicated. Unfortunately, it isn't possible to please everyone and given that, all we can do is the best we can do.
I try not to take another person's reaction personally and that can be difficult too. So, what is a girl to do?
1. plan what it is you want to communicate - what do you want to say, what are your expectations, be clear.
2. use the most personal method possible - by that I mean avoid email or texting unless absolutely necessary.
3. decide when is the best time to talk-need privacy? need time for Q&A? early in the day or late in the day?
4. check in with the other person to hear that they understand.
5. provide as much info as possible as early as possible-no one likes surprises.
I continue to try to be the best communicator possible and I know it is not easy. I must give others the benefit of the doubt that they are trying as well.
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